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- My Lifes Lessons -
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11.15.2006
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I'm only 20 years old and I'm sure I'll go through a lot more, and probably a lot harder things before I'm through living, but life so far hasn't exactly been simple. These are a few of the biggest lessons I've learned so far:
Don't lie to people, especially to save someone from getting hurt. They will find out you lied, and you will hurt them twice as much as you would have in the first place.
Gaurd your heart closely. Don't be afraid to love someone because love is an amazing feeling, but don't give your heart away to a good looking sweet talker. It's more than likely they are full of shit.
Some things will make you feel better for awhile, but will make you feel worse in the end. Don't depend on other things or people to make you feel better. Learn how to make yourself happy.
If you can't love yourself, others will find it hard to love you also.
People who are nothing like you might end up being some of your favorite people.
When and if you are ever blessed with a child, put the child first. Don't think about your own feelings before thinking about the childs life. Being completely in charge of how someones life will turn out is a big thing.
If someone hurts you, forgive them. If someone hurts you over and over again keep loving them, but don't keep putting yourself through the pain. You can't change people and most people aren't going to change themselves.
You will lose people you love to death. Don't spend forever being sad or angry that they are gone. Talk to people about them, about the good times. Those are the memories that matter.
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2 Comments:
Your wisdom is beyond your 20 years. Those were good lessons for me to read about. The good news is that we just keep living and there will be more hard lessons to learn, but what we do with those lessons is what will make us a better and stronger person. It sounds like you get better and stronger every day.
You have the wisdom of someone four times your age...I am learning from you...and wasn't I YOUR teacher????????
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